Timeline Youth Violated as young boy( 3 or 4y.o.) by by older boys at church family house Mom was overprotective of me because of the abuse incident My mom had a traumatic miscarriage due to a medical mistake and suffered from depression from that issue Mom was a hoarder*, could not have people over to play * she didn't keep up the house for a while and then it got hard to manage... Only child Few friends growing up Not popular at school. Mom did not have a vehicle so limited extracurricular activities (no soccer, sports, clubs etc) I did tae kwon do a few times but not in a row I did swimming as a youth but parents did not have funds to continue No vehicle made it difficult to get to friend's houses that lived farther away. Because my mom's hoarding disorder we could not have friends over Some of the neighborhood friends were a few years younger I was 12 and my best friend was 8 at the time Masterbated 1st time about age 12 or 13 in bathroom, some underwear model in a sho